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by sminchin @ 2008-05-09 - 14:11:41

It's hard not to take things personally when someone you count as a friend is deep in conversation with someone else in the corridor and actually turns her back on you as you walk past...

... the same conversation which suddenly breaks up when you walk back again

I know the two of them are good friends

I know people around here have social lives which I'm not included in

I know that people often make snap-judgements about me 'cos I actually do my job properly and have 2 kids to look after

It just pisses me off that people can be so blatant about leaving me out!

Ugh, I feel 7 years old again

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PurpleDragonPurpleDragon [Member]
09/05/08 @ 15:22

Oh, gods, I hate it when shit like that happens. When people subtly shift their bodies to exclude, and often they don't even know they are doing it.

I have a group that I am pals with, and they are pals with the other group (I'm not 'in' that group) and - well - need I say more? The school gate is so much fun. I thought I left school, but apparently not.

Stomach churning.

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"which I'm not included in" ??

Erm, "in which I am not included" surely?

ROFL

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sminchinsminchin pro
09/05/08 @ 17:49

Sorry, grammar suffers when I'm feeling shitty

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PurpleDragonPurpleDragon [Member]
09/05/08 @ 18:11

As does mine, sweetie, but I thought it might give you a wee grin :)

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MonkeyPieMonkeyPie [Member]
09/05/08 @ 17:05

It's like school politics! Nightmare! I'm sure it was all just a coincidence.

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sminchinsminchin pro
09/05/08 @ 17:50

Probably... there's definitely something strange going on...

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moltsplacemoltsplace pro
09/05/08 @ 17:37

It's not nice especially if it's someone you thought was a friend.

*hug*

x

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sminchinsminchin pro
09/05/08 @ 17:51

Thanks
x

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cj592cj592 pro
09/05/08 @ 19:38

... {looking for a bright side}
Perhaps they were organising a surprise party for you?

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sminchinsminchin pro
09/05/08 @ 19:43

Unlikely
but thank you

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faffajanefaffajane pro
http://faffajane.blog.co.uk/
09/05/08 @ 21:35

I hate it when that happens, it isn't very nice.

Hugs xxx

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sminchinsminchin pro
09/05/08 @ 22:00

It isn't nice but I'm feeling far more positive now - it's her business and her loss if she doesn't want to share things with me
Have fun tomorrow!
x

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faffajanefaffajane pro
http://faffajane.blog.co.uk/
09/05/08 @ 23:23

Will do thanks:)

hugs xx

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Austin-LanceAustin-Lance [Member]
10/05/08 @ 16:33

Awww one thing about it, you're not left out here :D

Could be jealousy, especially if you're doing your job better than she's doing hers. If she wants to be ignorant, then that's her problem. You can rise above it :)

*BIG HUGS*

xxxxxxx

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sminchinsminchin pro
10/05/08 @ 19:02

That's very true :)
She is one that skates through work with the minimum possible effort, she's also one of those who couldn't be arsed coming to my 30th birthday party last year
I'm rising about it, honest!
x

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dombustosdombustos [Member]
http://www.myspace.com/melaniegurl
13/05/08 @ 13:01

wow, how rude.

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sminchinsminchin pro
13/05/08 @ 17:35

She's one of those people who's completely oblivious to others around her...

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